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The Impact of Critical Race Theory
July 26, 2021

The Impact of Critical Race Theory

What is it? – Critical Race Theory is an academic concept that’s more than 40 years old. The core idea is that race is a social construct and that racism is not just a product of individual bias or prejudice, but is also sys...

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Are You Loved Enough?
July 10, 2021

Are You Loved Enough?

First Corinthians 13:4-7 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delig...

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You Don't Have The Right To Discipline My Child
July 8, 2021

You Don't Have The Right To Discipline My Child

Legally just because you marry someone does not mean you have any legal rights to the child immediately upon that marriage… You can provide for them. Feed them. Clothe them. Love them as your own. Provide Health and Dental Co...

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Disrespectful and Ungrateful Children
June 3, 2021

Disrespectful and Ungrateful Children

Children are a blessing. They bring joy, love, value, and even education to our lives. We want to give them the best, we want them to not make the same mistakes we did growing up. So, we try to help them navigate life – helpi...

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Men on Fire Series Part 3: What's Your Motivation To Keep Us Happy?
May 25, 2021

Men on Fire Series Part 3: What's Your Motivation To Keep Us Happy?

This is the final episode of the Men of Fire Series - Part 3: What's Your Motivation To Keep Us Happy ? This episode is also in video format on YouTube at: https://youtu.be/4YA836lNepc In the beginning, we focus so much of ou...

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Men on Fire Series Part 2: Defining a High-Value Man
May 5, 2021

Men on Fire Series Part 2: Defining a High-Value Man

This is Part 2 of 3 of our Men of Fire Series titled: Defining a High-Value Man Most women want a good quality man, but does that include the traits of an HVM? Everyone's opinion is different and could be quite subjective. Ne...

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Men on Fire Series Part 1: What Am I Asking A Man To Do?
April 28, 2021

Men on Fire Series Part 1: What Am I Asking A Man To Do?

Welcome to part one of a three-part series titled - Men on Fire: What Am I Asking A Man To do? This episode is also on YouTube - https://youtu.be/UUdICdnI_PI Ladies think about that for a second. Men are considered to be the ...

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Shining In The Background
March 31, 2021

Shining In The Background

This is Part III which will conclude our “ cheating podcast series ". Make sure you check out the previous two episodes ( 34 - Why Do People Cheat In Relationships & 35 - Sex, Sandwiches, and Silence). So what does " Shining ...

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Sex, Sandwiches and Silence
March 15, 2021

Sex, Sandwiches and Silence

Chris Rock Said it best “ Feed me, Phuck me and then Shut the phuck up ” Men are simple creatures – our “wants are very simple” once we get them, we’re happy...or at least so we think. So let's explore some of the "wants" tha...

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Why Do People Cheat In Relationships
Feb. 27, 2021

Why Do People Cheat In Relationships

Why do people cheat in relationships? A study from May 2020 states that 20% of married couples and 70% of unmarried couples experience infidelity ( basically CHEATING )! https://comparecamp.com/cheating-statistics/ WHY? Well,...

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What You "Think" You Control In Your Relationship
Feb. 14, 2021

What You "Think" You Control In Your Relationship

Happy Valentines Day! Think about the below questions for a second... Do women control sex? Do men control the relationship? or... Does the person who loves the least control the relationship? Listen in as we take our podcast...

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Challenges of 2020
Jan. 29, 2021

Challenges of 2020

The year 2020 has been a tough year for us all. We've dealt with this Covid-19 pandemic, loss of life, problems with relationships, people losing their job and lastly our mental health has been challenged. Well, thank goodnes...

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Transparency and Forgiveness
Jan. 3, 2021

Transparency and Forgiveness

Happy New Year! Welcome 2021 In this podcast we talk about the following: To be transparent: A person does not hide or conceal anything Includes being emotionally transparent – (fears, reveal the inner self, sadness, joys, re...

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The Love Bomb
Dec. 24, 2020

The Love Bomb

Wikipedia’s definition of Love bombing is an attempt to influence a person by demonstrations of attention and affection. It can be used in different ways and for either positive or negative purposes. You meet someone, and the...

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Loving Someone Shouldn't Hurt
Nov. 16, 2020

Loving Someone Shouldn't Hurt

According to the ncadv.org (National Coalition Against Domestic Violence), we learned the following On average nearly 20 people per minute are physically abused by an intimate partner in the U.S. 1 in 7 women and 1 in 25 men ...

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Why Is Voting Important For African Americans?
Nov. 1, 2020

Why Is Voting Important For African Americans?

Well, it's that time of year again with the 2020 presidential election only a few days away. This is proclaimed to be one of the most important elections of our time. There is a lot on the ballot with this election that we al...

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Honoring My Mom - Fatimah Shabazz
Oct. 22, 2020

Honoring My Mom - Fatimah Shabazz

It's been almost a year since the passing of my mother on October 30th, 2019. She is loved and missed so much by her family and friends. So for the anniversary of her passing, my brothers and I decided to have a podcast in h...

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How Important Is Intimacy In A Relationship?
Sept. 16, 2020

How Important Is Intimacy In A Relationship?

In the episode, we talk about the 7 elements that define an intimate relationship. They are: Knowledge - forming deep, intimate relationships, we share a vast amount of personal information that we would not necessarily feel ...

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The Mask of Social Media
Aug. 15, 2020

The Mask of Social Media

This episode of MSO is dedicated to my late father, John A. Shabazz ! Many of us always seem to be more comfortable expressing ourselves from behind a mask. We’ll take a chance on doing the good, bad or ugly just as long as i...

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Is There A Good Man Behind A Good Woman
July 9, 2020

Is There A Good Man Behind A Good Woman

The world's changing. Women are moving up the corporate ladder, creating new businesses, opportunities, and making their mark in society as being one of the most aggressive game-changers today. But...is that a problem for som...

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I Can't Breathe Part 3: Under Arrest and Distress
June 30, 2020

I Can't Breathe Part 3: Under Arrest and Distress

In this final episode of the "I Can't Breathe" Podcast Series, I invite my guest to share their personal experiences with unnecessary police harassment. I close the series with a simple conversation with my guest (BJ) and we ...

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I Can't Breathe Part 2: Perspectives of The Black and Blue
June 13, 2020

I Can't Breathe Part 2: Perspectives of The Black and Blue

Join MSO as we hit on topics that deal with the racial divide in America. Discussing: How do we feel about excessive force used by some law enforcement? What punishment should be applied to the four officers who took George ...

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I Can't Breathe Part 1: The Social Injustice Against People Of Color
June 3, 2020

I Can't Breathe Part 1: The Social Injustice Against People Of Color

This episode is part 1 of a 3 part series titled " I Can't Breathe "! Each episode will be based on discussions around social injustice, police brutality, and dealing with the daily issues around systemic racism in America. P...

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Woman...You Just Don't Understand
May 29, 2020

Woman...You Just Don't Understand

We as men fight enough battles outside of our homes. We don't need to come home from a long day and have another fight with our spouse or family. This podcast talks about the challenges in relationships when it comes to under...

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