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June 3, 2021

Disrespectful and Ungrateful Children

Children are a blessing. They bring joy, love, value, and even education to our lives. We want to give them the best, we want them to not make the same mistakes we did growing up. So, we try to help them navigate life – helping them learn along the way. In some cases, they make us much better parents and people in general. Now on the other hand some children – not most but some can be disrespectful, ungrateful, entitled, and even narcissistic. They exemplify behaviors such as: Talking ba...
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May 25, 2021

Men on Fire Series Part 3: What's Your Motivation To Keep Us Happy?

This is the final episode of the Men of Fire Series - Part 3: What's Your Motivation To Keep Us Happy? This episode is also in video format on YouTube at: https://youtu.be/4YA836lNepc In the beginning, we focus so much of our attention on the person we are dating/married to that we can sometimes make you lose focus of ourselves. Then, on the other hand, certain life events take place that can make you lose sight of your other half as well. Hey, I get it – life happens, but when we get off cou...
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May 5, 2021

Men on Fire Series Part 2: Defining a High-Value Man

This is Part 2 of 3 of our Men of Fire Series titled: Defining a High-Value Man Most women want a good quality man, but does that include the traits of an HVM? Everyone's opinion is different and could be quite subjective. Nevertheless, we (Latonia, Big Boz, and Bazz) discuss in this podcast just that. So check out some of the traits we researched online (www.lovequestcoaching.com ) and see if any of those apply to you. MSO figured to be considered an HVM, they should have at least 9 out of the...
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April 28, 2021

Men on Fire Series Part 1: What Am I Asking A Man To Do?

Welcome to part one of a three-part series titled - Men on Fire: What Am I Asking A Man To do? This episode is also on YouTube - https://youtu.be/UUdICdnI_PI Ladies think about that for a second. Men are considered to be the priest, protectors, and providers of the home. If he is doing all of this, what more do you want out of him? So my questions for the men are: Are you being asked to go above and beyond for your family? Do they even appreciate what you do? Do you sometimes go with...
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March 31, 2021

Shining In The Background

This is Part III which will conclude our “cheating podcast series". Make sure you check out the previous two episodes (34 - Why Do People Cheat In Relationships & 35 - Sex, Sandwiches, and Silence). So what does "Shining In The Background” mean – simply put it's main chick vs side chick. The main chick is more visible to the public, official, and has priority in the relationship, but the side chick is always "shining in the background". Most men don't, and some men do have side chicks, why? W...
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March 15, 2021

Sex, Sandwiches and Silence

Chris Rock Said it best “Feed me, Phuck me and then Shut the phuck up” Men are simple creatures – our “wants are very simple” once we get them, we’re happy...or at least so we think. So let's explore some of the "wants" that can put a smile on a man's face and give me some solace he can look forward to in his relationship. They consist of: Food - It's always been said the way to a man's heart is his stomach - we'll test that theory. Sex - Although it's very important, and if you are i...
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Feb. 27, 2021

Why Do People Cheat In Relationships

Why do people cheat in relationships? A study from May 2020 states that 20% of married couples and 70% of unmarried couples experience infidelity (basically CHEATING)! https://comparecamp.com/cheating-statistics/ WHY? Well, that's the subject of discussion on this episode. This age-old question is still a mystery to some people, especially to individuals in relationships who "feel" they are giving their partner 100% of them. Is it...frustration, neglect, lack of sex or interest, finances, no c...
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Feb. 14, 2021

What You "Think" You Control In Your Relationship

Happy Valentines Day! Think about the below questions for a second... Do women control sex? Do men control the relationship? or... Does the person who loves the least control the relationship? Listen in as we take our podcast on the road in sunny Orlando, FL (recorded on SuperBowl Sunday) with an in-person dialog (with social distancing) with Eric, Cory, Jon, Joe, and myself. We talk about all the above questions and we even go a bit deeper in the conversation and discuss communication, sex, ...
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Jan. 29, 2021

Challenges of 2020

The year 2020 has been a tough year for us all. We've dealt with this Covid-19 pandemic, loss of life, problems with relationships, people losing their job and lastly our mental health has been challenged. Well, thank goodness it's over and we can start looking forward to positive times in 2021. Listen in on this episode as I speak with my guests (Eric, John, and Chris) around some of the challenges they faced in 2020. I also join in on sharing mine as well and I also give the listeners some ne...
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Jan. 3, 2021

Transparency and Forgiveness

Happy New Year! Welcome 2021 In this podcast we talk about the following: To be transparent: A person does not hide or conceal anything Includes being emotionally transparent – (fears, reveal the inner self, sadness, joys, resentment, anger, desires, point of views, basic and most intimate communication) To not be transparent: Conceal Information and offer it up as needed. Can lead to living separate lives – living inner lives privately, building walls, and closing doors within the relati...